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Jenna Ryu

Jenna Ryu is a Lifestyle Writer at SELF Magazine based in New York, where she covers topics ranging from beauty to mental health to relationships. She received her B.A. in psychology and journalism at Georgetown University. Before joining SELF, she was a Wellness Reporter at USA TODAY.

When she's not busy writing or testing skin care, you can find her running, painting, or watching a horror movie.

Family

How to Recharge Your Social Battery, According to Therapists

Because nothing drains you faster than hours of smiling and small talk.
Life

What Actually Happens When Women Spend Days in Complete Silence

Silent retreats offer what life rarely does: real quiet—and a reset you can’t find at home.
Health

9 Ways to Say No to Alcohol When Everyone’s Being Nosy

No need to overexplain yourself. This will help you skip drinks—and annoying follow-ups.
Sex

How to Be a Really Good Kisser

These nine tricks will take your makeout sessions from basic to unforgettable.
Life

Did You Grow Up in a Fart-Pride or Fart-Shame Household?

What started as a TikTok debate has turned into a real compatibility test for couples.
Life

How to Be a More Resilient Person, According to Therapists

Here’s why one mistake can crush some people—but fuel others.
Relationships

What to Do If Your Mother-in-Law Doesn’t Like You

Whether she criticizes your parenting…or hijacks the first dance at your wedding.
Life

How We Healed Our Friendship After 3 Years of Silence

Influencer Cameron Rogers tells the story of losing—and rebuilding—one of her closest relationships.
Op-ed

Where Are the Men Who Yearn?

On ‘Heated Rivalry,’ they love and long. Offscreen, they don’t exist.
Skin

Can Accutane Really Give You a ‘Nose Job’?

Kendall Jenner thinks so. Here’s what dermatologists say.
Sports

Olympic Figure Skater Maia Shibutani’s Next Turn

After facing a kidney cancer diagnosis, the Olympic medalist is eyeing a return to the sport she loves.
Dating

Modern Dating Sucks. Here’s How to Make It Fun Again

You don’t need to meet your perfect match to have a good experience.
Heart truths

14 Ways to Actually Get Over a Breakup, According to Therapists

Moving on takes time, but these tips can make the process more bearable.
Relationships

Age-Gap Relationships Get a Bad Rap—but These 5 Tricks Make Them Work

Marty Supreme and Babygirl make it look steamy. Off-screen, it’s more complicated.
Relative calm

7 Clever Ways to Take a Little Break From Your Family During the Holidays

There’s nothing wrong with wanting some alone time, even when you’re with people you love.
Family

5 Types of Toxic In-Laws—and How to Deal With Each

These expert tips will help you call out bad behavior without starting a family feud.
Money

How to Stop Buying Things You Don’t Actually Need, According to Financial Therapists

Just because there’s a sale doesn’t mean you have to impulsively shop.
Love

5 Ways to Feel Less Lonely During the Holidays

Other than drinking away your sadness or hitting up a hometown hookup.
Mental Health

4 Signs Your Dysfunctional Family Could Really Use Therapy

Drama is normal—but when does it call for a professional intervention?