Life

Life
Did You Grow Up in a Fart-Pride or Fart-Shame Household?
What started as a TikTok debate has turned into a real compatibility test for couples.

Life
What Actually Happens When Women Spend Days in Complete Silence
Silent retreats offer what life rarely does: real quiet—and a reset you can’t find at home.

Op-ed
I Thought Social Media Was the Problem. Then I Looked Deeper.
Lee Tilghman reflects on logging off at the height of her career.

Life
How to Be a More Resilient Person, According to Therapists
Here’s why one mistake can crush some people—but fuel others.

Life
5 Things to Do When Your Social Anxiety Skyrockets, According to Therapists
This is exactly what they tell their patients.

Column
Need Friendship Advice? Welcome to SELF’s Asking for a Friend
Therapist Miriam Kirmayer is here to help you make sense of your messiest, most complicated friendship moments.

Family
How to Recharge Your Social Battery, According to Therapists
Because nothing drains you faster than hours of smiling and small talk.

Health
9 Ways to Say No to Alcohol When Everyone’s Being Nosy
No need to overexplain yourself. This will help you skip drinks—and annoying follow-ups.

Travel
What Women Are Actually Getting Out of Those Menopause Retreats
The biggest takeaway often goes beyond simply alleviating symptoms.

Mental Health
‘Quiet Quitting’ Your Family Might Save Your Sanity
Brooklyn Beckham says he just needs a little space. You might too.

Cover Story
Lindsey Vonn Doesn’t Need Your Permission
The 41-year-old skier is rewriting what’s possible.

Cooking
A Day in the Life of Whitney Leavitt’s Private Chef
Keegan McManus, known as @kdmkitchen on Instagram, is stepping up to the plate.
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Mental Health
5 Signs You Have ‘Toxic Independence’
Healthy self-sufficiency is a choice. Toxic independence is survival.
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Life
How We Healed Our Friendship After 3 Years of Silence
Influencer Cameron Rogers tells the story of losing—and rebuilding—one of her closest relationships.

Health
There’s a New Guidebook for Women in Perimenopause and Menopause Who Just Don’t Care
Influencer Melani Sanders wants you to get out your reading glasses and air your grievances.
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Life
Why I’m Done With Confidence—and Choosing Cockiness Instead
Cockiness keeps you moving forward when everyone else is telling you to step aside.

Life
I Asked an Astrologist About My 2026 Love Life. And Here's Why You Should, Too
July sounds like it’s going to be a very lucky month.
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Entertainment
Celebs Are Cashing In on Protein
Makeup and skin care are out; bars, shakes, and powders are in.

Sports
Olympic Figure Skater Maia Shibutani’s Next Turn
After facing a kidney cancer diagnosis, the Olympic medalist is eyeing a return to the sport she loves.
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Life
6 Signs It’s Time to Leave Your Toxic Mom Group, According to Therapists
They’ve been, ahem, in the news lately.

Life
You’re Not Lazy or Broken. You’re Numbing Out
“Dimmers” feel good but steal your time. Here’s how to use them less.

Money Rx
The First Step of Overcoming Debt Is Forgiveness
Don’t sentence yourself to a lifetime of guilt and overcorrection.


Life
How to Make (and Keep) Your New Year’s Resolutions
Let this year be the one you finally follow through—with compassion instead of pressure.

Diarrhea
3 Things to Do When Traveler’s Diarrhea Is Ruining Your Life
Read this before you toss back the Imodium.

Life
4 Things to Do After an Incredibly Draining Family Visit
As they say, you don’t choose your family.