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Sex
How to Squirt During Sex—and What That Liquid Actually Is
No, it’s not just pee. And yes, it could feel really good to learn.
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Sex
How to Be a Really Good Kisser
These nine tricks will take your makeout sessions from basic to unforgettable.

Relationships
The Relationship Mistake That Keeps People Stuck for Years
No, your time is not a “sunk cost.”


SexShop These Stellar Adam & Eve Vibrator Deals, Before They’re Gone
Save up to 75% on some of our favorite toys.
SexWhere to Buy the Best Sex Toys Online Right Now
Whether you’re just curious or want to grow your current collection.
Sex9 Expert-Approved Sex Toys on Sale at Lelo Right Now
Deals as satisfying as the products themselves.
SexHow to Choose the Right Strap-On, According to Sex Therapists
Finding the best fit is about more than just size.
Sex LoveYour Guide to the Best Sex Toys Out There, According to Experts
Including beginner-friendly rabbits, remote-controlled vibes, and more.
Shopping16 Sex Pillows to Help You Hit All the Right Angles
According to experts and very pleased shoppers.
ShoppingWe Asked 10 Experts: Which Wand Vibrators Are Truly Worth the Hype?
Their answers may surprise you.
Shopping3 Sex Toys to Snag ASAP for a Spicy Valentine’s Day, According to Sex Therapists
Save the sweets and flowers for later.
Sex LoveVibrators 101: Everything You Need to Know (and the Expert-Approved Ones to Try)
We found beginner-friendly wands, bullets, and more.42 slides
ShoppingThe Best Rabbit Vibrator Is Actually a Snail
After weeks of testing, I can confirm: The hype is real.

Family
How to Recharge Your Social Battery, According to Therapists
Because nothing drains you faster than hours of smiling and small talk.

Sex
9 G-Spot Sex Positions for Deep Penetration and Intense Orgasms
These expert-approved moves make it easy to find this pleasure zone.

Life
Did You Grow Up in a Fart-Pride or Fart-Shame Household?
What started as a TikTok debate has turned into a real compatibility test for couples.


Relationships
What to Do If Your Mother-in-Law Doesn’t Like You
Whether she criticizes your parenting…or hijacks the first dance at your wedding.

Op-ed
Where Are the Men Who Yearn?
On ‘Heated Rivalry,’ they love and long. Offscreen, they don’t exist.
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Dating
Modern Dating Sucks. Here’s How to Make It Fun Again
You don’t need to meet your perfect match to have a good experience.

Heart truths
14 Ways to Actually Get Over a Breakup, According to Therapists
Moving on takes time, but these tips can make the process more bearable.


Relationships
Age-Gap Relationships Get a Bad Rap—but These 5 Tricks Make Them Work
Marty Supreme and Babygirl make it look steamy. Off-screen, it’s more complicated.

Menopause
What Ob-Gyns Think About the First Libido-Boosting Pill Approved for Use After Menopause
The drug was previously only indicated for premenopausal women, leaving those in midlife without a solution.
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Love
5 Ways to Feel Less Lonely During the Holidays
Other than drinking away your sadness or hitting up a hometown hookup.

Sex
Why Are Straight, Middle-Aged Women So Into ‘Heated Rivalry’?
The gay hockey romance show is probably turning you on.
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Dating
5 Signs You’re a ‘Serial Monogamist,’ According to Relationship Therapists
And should really take a break from dating.

Life
Are Best Friends the New Boyfriends?
Commitment without romance is trending—and for some, it’s preferred.

Dating
Why Are All the Lonely Girls Going to Paris?
Coming out of a five-year relationship, I took the opportunity to find out for myself.

Feature
The New Sexy Singles Scene? Your Local Climbing Gym
“It’s kind of like a playground. Maybe more like a zoo.”

Relationships
Does the ‘Taxi Cab Theory’ for Love Hold Up in Real Life?
Why—and how—emotionally unavailable men have a sudden change of heart.

Relationships
5 ‘Acceptable’ Reasons to Forgive a Cheater, According to Couples Therapists
Some affairs are easier to understand than others.
